Michelle notes the intense and fast-developing relationship with Barack Obama as they fall deeply in love. With Barack scheduled to return to Harvard in a month, they spend every possible moment together, talking about their lives, interests, and future. Michelle describes Barack’s modest apartment, his extensive reading habits, and his deep concern for societal issues.

Michelle also introduces Barack to her family, who, while impressed, remain cautious due to her history of quickly moving on from previous boyfriends. She learns more about Barack’s diverse family and his upbringing, marked by significant transitions and challenges, yet filled with love and support.

As their relationship deepens, they spend time together in various settings, including a church in Roseland where Barack leads a community organizing session. Michelle is struck by Barack’s ability to inspire hope and call for action in a community facing many struggles. This experience helps Michelle see Barack’s commitment to creating meaningful change in the world around him.

The chapter also touches on Michelle’s close friendships, the impact of her friend Suzanne’s battle with cancer, and her untimely death, which challenges Michelle’s beliefs about fairness and control and causes her to reflect on the unpredictability and fragility of life.