In Peter’s youth, the Balakian family proudly adopts many aspects of American society while criticizing specific aspects of suburbia. What does Peter’s immediate family regard as the best and worst aspects of American life? What factors inform their opinions? To what extent did the family “assimilate” in the US?

In the first chapter, Peter’s grandmother tells him the tale of the Black Dog of Fate (9-10). Nafina says, “the dog tells us to have hope. The dog tells us there is mystery” (11). Expound on Nafina’s statement and explain what the story means in your own words. Why did Peter Balakian name his memoir after this story?

Peter Balakian knows few facts about his important family history before adulthood. His memoir invites the reader to consider the implications of sharing stories of unimaginable horror and violence with ensuing generations. Based on Peter’s reflections in the last two sections of the book, what do you think he would suggest to families of survivors of widespread violence about the value of the past and the right way(s) to commemorate it as time goes along? What do you think are the best ways to inform the youth about violent histories?