“Editha” is a study of how the ideal is often not only unfeasible but also damaging. From early in the story, Editha seeks to encourage George to enlist in the war to achieve “the completion of her ideal of him” (1). In making her argument, she paints a romanticized picture of America as a country that frees the oppressed and can never be wrong. War is not a breaking of the peace but a patriotic endeavor in which one proves one’s heroism and love of God and country. In order to achieve the ideal vision of her own life, Editha endeavors to mold George into “a hero, her hero” (1). She attempts to manipulate him into believing he is coming to the decision on his own, telling him she “couldn’t respect” (7) him if he enlisted just for her. She believes her leading him to this decision is enabling him “to perfect himself” (1). George, believing her sincere in her desire for “the highest ideal” (1), is susceptible to her manipulation, telling her, “When I differ from you I ought to doubt myself” (2).

Editha behaves in a way she imagines an ideal woman would behave. She offers a “generous sob” (2) at his desire to appease her.