“How to Talk to Girls at Parties” is written in first person, past tense, narrated by Enn from 30 years in the future. This perspective allows Enn to include the insight of an adult in his narration, almost as though he is still processing what happened that night. The narration also reveals the story’s significance to Enn because he remembers it decades later. The narrator uses adult insight to highlight moments of emotional importance. This technique is especially notable after Enn sees Stella’s face near the end of the story. He shares that what he saw in Stella’s expression has haunted him for 30 years, and he expects to remember it even when he dies.

The story is told chronologically, beginning before Vic and Enn reach the party. The first paragraphs establish the two boys, particularly Vic’s confidence with girls and Enn’s insecurity and innocence. Once they arrive at the party, the reader experiences what happens through Enn’s perspective, which allows for the plot’s surprises and twists.